February brings Valentine’s Day, which we all know as the holiday about love!  But healthy relationships aren’t just for adults.  We can start teaching our children as young as elementary school what it means to have healthy friendships.

The first step for parents is helping your children understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

1. Point out that a good friendship (which is one of our first relationships!) includes someone who:
   1. You can be yourself around
   2. You can be honest with and is honest with you
   3. Respects you and never threatens you
   4. You are able to communicate with, even if you disagree
2. An unhealthy friendship might include:
   1. Someone who pushes you on the playground (with the intent to hurt you) or takes/destroys your things
   2. Someone who calls you names or makes you feel bad in front of other friends or kids
   3. Someone who gets angry at you and you don’t know why

Remember the best way for your children to learn is by modeling positive and healthy relationships!  Give your children to the confidence to know they never have to stay in an unhealthy relationship or friendship. 

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